Humans are high-level animals with feelings, both men and women have the idea of ”new and old”, men meet other women, think they are better than their wives, some people meet men. All other men think that they are stronger than their husbands.
In fact, both men and women have similar delusions. There are people who are in a dating relationship and fall in love with each other.
Falling in love with a married person, if the other person is divorced, you and the other person should be destined to become one roof, this is the civil government’s permission, if you fall in love with the person who is not divorced, this is what moral law does not approve. You are the one who breaks the happiness of others.
Love is something there is no right or wrong! It’s not a big mistake to like a married person, like and love still have a certain distance, as long as there is reason to not cross the allowed boundary, do not interfere in other people’s families, Let’s secretly like it in your heart! If it’s just love more than the other, you can stand from afar to like the other person, absolutely don’t ask for anything more, if so, it will only hurt your feelings.
The best way to forget someone is to start a new relationship, let love heal the wound. Loving someone who can’t be together forever, is like going to the end of the world, you have to find another way, no matter how painful and confusing this choice is, you can’t hesitate. ! If you already know that you can’t be with the dance and don’t belong to you, you must understand the words of giving up.
Only by understanding the words of giving up can you completely forget, understanding how to give up can have a better future.
It’s not wrong to love someone, it’s not wrong to like someone.
Is that person worthy of your liking, only you yourself know, for how much you like the other person, only you can judge.
Like a person, this is your right, there should be no precepts, it’s okay to be married, it’s okay to be unmarried, it’s okay to have an age gap, if you simply like it, there’s no such thing. Any thought that is not secure is reasonable and not contrary to morality.
If you have liked a person, for the other person, there are thoughts of getting closer to them, especially a married person, then you need to think carefully, if you like a person, even less. should hurt the other party and his or her family and children. It should make them live happily and happily!
But if you like a person, the other person’s marriage is not happy, but you can ensure that you can make them happy from start to finish, then you can also go from liking one step further and develop emotional development. If you can’t do that, then don’t fall in love, hurt people also hurt yourself, even if you like, don’t like anymore.
It’s okay to like it, it’s okay to love it, for a married person, as long as you don’t take any practical action, even if you have any unusual thoughts, it is all a voluntary friend, no matter what. have the right and authority to govern and control your freedom.
It’s just that some don’t have the effect of temporarily consoling themselves or being amorous, for others it does not cause harm to others, so it’s nothing serious, we shouldn’t blame ourselves, we shouldn’t be afraid. , or guilt! Even so, I still recommend that we try not to have insecure thoughts, if we sink too deeply, it will only harm us, not benefit us!
Remember: Like is not possessive, don’t cross the line!